Abdul Ali Blog

The greatest discovery of our generation is that human beings can alter their lives by altering their attitude An attitude is a supposed construct that represent an individual’s degree of like and dislike for something attitude are generally positive or negative views of person, place, things, event Our attitude contribute to success.. Factors that determine our attitude: Let me tell you, we don’t born with attitude, we develop our attitude as we mature. Most of our attitudes were shaped during our formative years. E’s of Attitude: 1) Environment 2) Experience 3) Education We need to evaluate each of these factors individually We must have positive attitude, the benefits of a positive attitude 1) Makes for a pleasing personality 2) Is energizing 3) Increase enjoyment in our life 4) Inspire others around you 5) Helps us become a contributing member of society et

Have you ever noticed little drops of water along a sloping ground? If you have, you must have seen that initially, all of them are almost of the same size. Individually, none of them can reach the drain (their destination). But, eventually, these little drops of water get together, (as we are on a sloping ground) and form a bigger droplet. And then these bigger droplets join their counterparts to grow even bigger,...and eventually they reach where they want to, i.e., the drain. BUT, in the process, as the droplets increase in size, they leave behind some of their part. While observing this, it struck me, that their strategy of reaching their destination so comparable to the methodology adopted by humans. We also meet so many people in life, get together, take each other’s help, use, and abuse and exploit each other (!), in reaching our goals. We can’t reach our destination all by our self. And, in the process, we leave behind some of those people who helped us reach where we are t

l was wondering, if life is akin to a train journey...umm, lets see...... We start off from a particular station, called home, equipped to the best of our ability, with the aim of reaching our destination. During this journey, we meet many people while on the train. Some of them start with us, and accompany us till the end..they are our family... some others we meet on the journey, but who accompany us till the end.. they are our true friends, our friends for life.. and some others are there with us only or a short while, but do leave their impact on us..they are the innumerable people we meet each day, everyday.. The train stops at several stations.. life also has many stops after which a new phases begins...these stops help us relax and refresh ourself.. the short stops at the station also indicates that everything in life is momentary... nothing lasts forever, and change is inevitable.. any sorrow/pain/loss is only temporary, and will enentually pass.... we may find a very s

Can you control your Destiny??? Can you control your destiny? Well this is one question that haunts almost every soul on this planet, and I guess everyone must have given it a thought, some time or the other. And I of course, am no exception. I happened to be thinking about this for a while now. And I wished to share my thoughts. So what better forum that "Some Respite"! What I think is, your destiny is made up of many events that comprise your life. Every small event that takes place in your everyday life contributes to making your destiny. Now, life always provides us with options to choose from. (If you don't want to look at an option it does not mean that life does not give you a choice). If this is the case, then we have a control over every small event that takes place in our life, and consequently, our DESTINY. Friends, the essence of this write-up is that one should look at the bigger picture called life, and not crib about the tiny little things. Like